I read two blog posts today that touched me deeply. One was from a blogger who is a war survivor, describing some random habits gained after the war. The other one shared her story of surviving a battle against cancer and a near fatal car crash.
Both showed strong will, resilience, and a tremendous positive attitude and also humor, despite of what fate had presented them in their life journeys. They didn’t despair and were the last ones to laugh.
Natalie Goldberg said: “Write what disturbs you, what you fear; what you have not been willing to speak about. Be willing to be split open.”
I left a comment another day on a blog about this quote. I said that it had hit me hard, as if someone had found out my secret truth. I thought again about the reasons why I blog since a few months ago, and the way I express myself.
These bloggers made me once more aware of what I already know for so long. I should have the guts to take some dead memories from my mind and bring them to the open. I need to put them where they belong, in a graveyard.
I like movies, blog posts, and books, that I can relate to, because they are like fragments that recount or resemble parts of my life experiences, feelings, thoughts, dreams, beliefs and hopes. I recognize parts of myself in those who touch me deeply.
They also have another superior purpose. When I empathize with other people’s struggles, they help me to heal my own wounds.
Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “heal/heel.” Linda G Hill
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What a lovely sentiment, and such open and honest words. You are absolutely right – if you write it down, share it, it is something of a relief, and makes room for us to move on to something else. This is a thoughtful and thought-provoking post – thank you for sharing this. xox
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Thank you. It was written fast and not thinking much. I guess that’s how the heart speaks. And yes, it is a relief. Xxx
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Yes, that’s when it’s the honest truth x.
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Aww… I almost cried, but just almost 🙂 I don’t cry often, so see this as a compliment 🙂 thank you so much for mentioning me in such a nice way. Realizing that you’ve touched someone’s heart with your blog is one of those really rare and special moments which you want to keep forever… This means a lot to me, thank you!!! ❤️
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You’re very sweet and kind. Heartfelt thanks. I remain grateful for your post and inspired by your story. The merit is all yours and you deserved every single word I used. ❤️
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You’re such a cutie ❤️❤️
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🙂
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Ps you should try to write down what bothers you. It helps a lot. Try seeing it from another perspective and write as if it happened to somebody else. It doesn’t need to be on your blog and nobody needs to read it, but I’m sure you will learn to gain distance and bury bad stuff forever.
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I actually write a lot privately. But not as you suggested. It is an excellent idea. Thank you so much.
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An excellent reflection on past issues and where to put them, often a lot easier to say than to achieve but I admire your determination.
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Thanks. I haven’t been successful yet, exactly for what you pointed out so well. So, wish me luck.
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It’s brave to be so open.
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Words coming right from the heart!
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Lucile, this is a beautiful raw post full of feeling and humanity, which is what I have to come to expect from you…
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Likewise, my friend. Heartfelt thanks.
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Thanks for sharing! Perhaps i ought to learn a bit from that quote as well..
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Thank you Albert. I guess it serves us all. 🙂
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I feel exactly the same way. I do try to embrace some of that pain occasionally, because after all, it did make me who I have become. I do find though, it no longer has a hold over me. Your post touched me deeply too. ❤
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Wow, that is really profound. I am inspired to think more about why I am drawn to certain experiences and stories. Most if us could do with a little healing. Thanks for posting.
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Thanks for reading and commenting. Means a lot. It is worth thinking about that and I wish you a nice journey. 🙂
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Well said. The word Resurrection popped up. I get what you are doing
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Thanks, Adrianna. 😉
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