Today’s NaBloPoMo prompt is this: Have you had an extended writer’s block? How long did it last? What did you do to break out of it, and do you have tips for other bloggers?
Some months ago I wrote a post about my search for inspiration, as I had spent some time without writing, for an absolute lack of will or inspiration.
So…yes, I didn’t write anything for 1,5 month and when I did, it was because I rationally decided to give it a try. But let me tell you why, what and how it happened.
Why?
I started blogging in February this year at Blogger. My editorial calendar was as shallow as one post every two weeks. The sure thing was my decision to only post meaningful and inspirational experiences, otherwise nobody would want to read them.
All went well until mid April, and after eight posts, I temporarily closed my ‘blogshop’ for lack of ingredients. I didn’t make a big deal about it, as by then my only audience was my Facebook’s friends and family.
The regular readers started asking me to write again, and I then realized that once I had gone public, I either should close the ‘blogshop’ and tell every one of my bankruptcy and failed attempt as a blogger, or return to the keyboard.
I decided to move forward, with or without inspiration. One, because I realized that once I exposed and shared my ideas, I was creating a reputation, which I should care for. Even if only for friends and family. Most importantly, I realized that I owed that to them for their interest, encouragement, support and loyalty, by reading and commenting every time I published a post. And they enjoyed it, to my surprise. That was an inspiration…
What
I understood first that in my quest for being authentic, I shouldn’t have translated that into being inspired nor inspiring. I would write what I had to say, and that could be only what would come up in my mind, no matter what. I took away the pressure and the expectation for high performance.
I spent way too many years working as a corporate executive; I confess that I needed a ‘rehab’ to get rid of this conditional and ingrained way of thinking that became so natural to me; always setting goals, crafting a business plan and a performance management system, etc. and from there driving my actions. The business woman was no blogger.
I had also to let go the high level of expectations I had set before, and the search for perfection. I had to allow myself to try again and again. I had to accept to fail and be vulnerable. In public.
How
What works for me until now is this: if I didn’t wake up in the middle of the night with an idea I want to write about, or if an idea was not naturally born at daylight, without much effort, I relax, as something will pop up in my mind anyways. Why? Because I write about things that I see or get from people; get insights from a movie; from reading a book; talking to strangers; or simply about what crosses freely my mind while looking at my preferred nature’s wonder, the sunset…
Let me tell you though that there is no magic formula to ‘cure’ a writer’s block. I tried several options, which you can read on my old post “In Search For Inspiration”, but almost intuitively I found my solution on a very personal way.
We all have a reason to write, which only us can define and explain. We write about different things. We have different styles. We are different from each other in every single way, that makes us unique. Let’s keep like that otherwise the world, and reading, becomes boring.
I believe though that we all have something in common; we love what we do. And just like in any love-relationship, we don’t think much, we feel it, and express it with our most genuine gestures.
If I dare to give only one piece of advice, that would be the one: Be authentic and keep writing.
Great tips. I enjoyed reading 🙂
LikeLike
Great to have you here, Angela. Thanks. I’m happy you liked it. I almost had another block to write about a block again…;-)
LikeLiked by 1 person
I like the image of the typewriter stuck in the wire fence. I have felt the same way as you describe. Thinking that I have set high expectations for myself and then I see other relax and just post simple blogs some days during this daily blogging.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Very good one. I saw it on Flickr abd had to have it. Exactly, we need to take it lightly sometimes. It takes the pressure away and when ready we go for the higher ones.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I intentionally read this and got my boost. I feel like a vitamin when I blog small but with a bunch a good stuff.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I like the vitamine! You write good stuff my dear.
LikeLike
Danke that is meaningful
LikeLike
I love this and it certainly mirrors my early struggle with blogging and why I now embrace it so completely. Thank you for sharing your perspectives with us today 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
We go sometimes through the same path as many people but to find where to go, we still need to taste it ourselves. Thanks for reading and commenting. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
I used to have writer’s block when I did creative/fiction writing. I didn’t know where to go or what to do, and eventually I gave up on writing altogether.
I only got back into writing by realizing that there are other styles that are also valuable. Now I write expository pieces on my blog & for my campus magazine and I find I rarely have writer’s block–there’s just so much to say about the world and my experiences/opinions.
LikeLiked by 1 person
You brought a very interesting perspective that i haven’t thought about. If people make the analysis you made, they may find out what they really like and never again feel that they haven’t much to write. Thanks much, Sabina. Very valuable insight.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Glad to share!
LikeLike
Great! By the way, do we have to use the prompts from BlogHer? I am tired of them for being often on personal views. I don’t want my blog to be all about me. Your thoughts?
LikeLike
No, you absolutely don’t have to use the BlogHer prompts! I haven’t used any of them yet. They’re more there for guidance–if you need ideas, they’re available, but you are not required to follow them.
I don’t want my blog to be all about me either, although usually I start with something that’s about me and extend it to be more universal.
LikeLiked by 1 person
You made my day and released me from dreadful prompts. I misunderstood that because an European friend who did it last October told me I had to. Then i noticed some of you not using it…
Thank you so much!
LikeLike
You’re welcome! I also looked over the prompts and found some of them awful. I usually don’t have a hard time coming up with things to write about, surprisingly.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It is poor quality prompts…
I feel the same about choosing a theme. 😉
LikeLiked by 1 person